Hello there, how are you? It’s a new day and another day of getting through this life differently than I did before. This, for me, oftentimes means changing how I think. Instead of awfulizing things, I am having to look at things in a more positive light.
What do I want to feel? What do I want to think? What would make me happy to think about? Sometimes it feels almost like a reflex to think negatively and when I do, I break out into a cold sweat and get a chill through my whole body. I am taking anti-anxiety medications but they don’t always help me.
I don’t want to forget the past, but when I remember it, I want to be able to reflect on it without cold sweats. I want to be able to listen to music, watch television and or movies without such a visceral reaction and connection to the past. The past twelve plus had some of the happiest and saddest memories of my life . I don’t want to act like they just didn’t happen. I also don’t want them to paralyze me either ! There has to be a way to coexist with the past and present memories so I have a future. The only way I see to do that is to change how I think.
Let’s see what it looks like in the numbers:
“changing how you think” in the English Ordinal system equals 232 (light and shadow self yes, no, may be, light and shadow self process)
“two three two” in the English Ordinal system equals 172 (one all vices in check light and shadow self process – 72 also =world and money)
“one seven two” in the English Ordinal system equals 157 (one all senses all vices in check 57 = human)
“one five seven” in the English Ordinal system equals 141 (one left side of the brain one process 41 = garbage)
“one four one ” in the English Ordinal system equals 128 (one light and shadow of self eternity and or racetrack existence 28=man)
“one two eight” in the English Ordinal system equals 141 *pattern with 141 and 128
Hello to you. How are you doing today? I’m doing better now that Link and I had our walk and then I made myself some breakfast! I know, simple, normal things but it’s those little things that help me move forward. The past couple of days have been a moment to moment kind of thing. I will be feeling ok and then if I’m not careful I will start ruminating on things from the past or memories and just get all anxious inside.
I am realizing that I have always been this person my husband has left me alone with. The difference before was I had work, running, playing video games or something else to help get rid of it. So this time alone is definitely getting me reacquainted with a self I used to be and realizing what used to work isn’t going to work this time!
As I’ve said before, I do believe God has a plan for me and I’m pretty sure what I’m going through is part of it. Some times only tough love gets what needs to be done accomplished.
From the people I’ve been talking to lately, a lot of anxiety going around so I’m definitely not alone. We all just have something different we are going through, but we are definitely not alone. With all this social distancing I find myself missing hugs and kisses a lot. I’ve been sending and receiving a lot of virtual hugs lol – just not quite the same as real ones!
Anyhew – hope this finds you well and loved.
“hugs and kisses” in the English Ordinal system equals 156/128/141/128……….
Hello to you. It’s Monday again and I made it through the night. Sleeping through the night is rough right now even with an aide. I’ll wake up in the night and anxiety provoking thoughts float flitter in. A lot of them center around my husband. Our family and friends have really been helping during the day but they can’t help me through the night. Link is my cuddle buddy but he can do only so much!
Lately I’ve been doing a lot of reaching out a lot more. I find even a couple texts back and forth help me. I have been feeling almost paralyzed in my body lately. I am having to force myself to do things that used to seem so effortless before. Things I used to like to do are more difficult right now. Just watching the wrong thing on tv can provoke swells of anxiety in me.
Writing here has been helping me process what is going on inside and keep my family and friends up to date on how I’m doing.
For me, right now, it’s one moment at a time and to continue to reach out. I don’t ever want what has happened the past couple of years to happen again.
I am having to remind myself a lot to stay in the present moment. My inner voice, that sounds a lot like my husbands voice, saying, “Jackie, stay here. Stay in the now. You can’t change what has already happened. You can only go forward and be better.”
Thank you as always for stopping by and walking with me on this journey.
Hello to you. How are you doing today? I’m finding myself in a better place this morning. I feel grateful to be making it to another day in the circumstances I find myself in. I am trying to remain grateful.
Last night I had another battle with anxiety. What happens is I start thinking too far ahead or ruminating on all the uncertainties in front of me and things I can’t control. Then I start to get that extremely uncomfortable anxious feeling in my gut. Relief has come from physical exertion and doing normal things. I am having to relearn what normal things are for myself right now. I find there are a lot of things I used to do that I just can’t bring myself to do right now.
I really feel like I am really having a test in my life right now with the concept of mindfulness. That concept of staying in the present moment.
I am having to ask myself internally a lot, “what can you do about it and if the answer is nothing right now why are you dwelling on it?” Something my husband used to do for me and now I’m having to do for myself is to remind myself that worrying about things doesn’t do any good. It’s usually easier said than done he’s right.
The pandemic is still here in Texas but they have really started to lift restrictions so places can open back up. I went to get groceries yesterday at our local Brookshire’s and some of the shelves were cleared out! One of the biggest areas that was cleared was the aisle with cleaning supplies – nothing but concentrated Clorox for example. I can tell they are having trouble keeping some things stocked up right now. I’m just grateful to be able to get the basics right now.
Well I hope however this blog finds you that you are well. Everybody is telling me that I’m strong and that I will get through all that’s going on. I’m just learning to take a few steps at a time and having a lot of faith.