Hello to you, how are you doing? I am having another day without having a Coca Cola as part of my routine and I can tell. Is this why I’m having another day of feeling “off?” I have to be my own personal Sherlock Holmes it seems when trying to figure out why one day isn’t like another. Why one day I will feel like I can handle just about anything and others where a leaf landing on my head could tip me over!
I’ve been talking with people who are like me. A lot of what we do is this super-sleuthing, digging through what can be construed as a shit pile of a life for core reasons for what is happening. I can’t dig too much and or ruminate without becoming practically paralyzed by what surfaces. For example our family is about to experience a wedding and I have decided not to go because I know it’s a trigger.
This upcoming wedding triggers thoughts of my own wedding and I keep seeing flashes of our wedding pictures in my minds-eye. I keep seeing my ex and how handsome and sweet he was…how happy we were. I know that my wedding and the subsequent failure of our marriage is at the core of why I’m having trouble with my cousins’ son getting married. A pessimistic self has emerged that asks questions like why even bother with marriage.
So what I have excavated is a trigger to my core and I don’t want it to ruin me or taint anyone around me.
“trigger” in the English Ordinal system equals 84 (ironically my ex was born in 1984)
“core” in the English Ordinal system equals 41
“money” in the English Ordinal system equals 72
“world” in the English Ordinal system equals 72
“marriage” in the English Ordinal system equals 72